tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-43985487494139450062024-03-13T05:41:40.012-07:00Dating and Mate - Advices, Love Story and Love TipsBlog that collect various types of love story, romance tips and offers associated with build romantic relationships, maintaining romantic relationships, increase intimacy in romance and relationship of husband and wife. Suitable for all ages who are ready to enter the realm of romance as a teenager, young adult, adult, widowers, widows, the elderly and others.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger73125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-81089484948867559122014-03-12T16:41:00.001-07:002014-03-12T16:41:05.068-07:00Apakah itu Selaput Dara? APAKAH TANDA-TANDA GADIS YANG SUDAH HILANG DARA?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>Apakah itu Selaput Dara? </b><br /><br />Dalam istilah perubatan moden, selaput dara dipanggil sebagai hymen. Selaput dara ini merupakan satu lipatan selaput lendir yang menutupi pintu bibir vagina perempuan. Ia telah ada sejak bayi perempuan itu dilahirkan. Kedudukannya adalah di antara satu atau dua centimeter dari bibir luar vagina dan bentuknya bulat mengikut liang vagina. Selaput ini sangat nipis dan merupakan membran yang lembut. Secara biologinya membran ini tidak berfungsi, namun ia tetap menjadi beban yang sangat berat kerana gadis dinilai oleh “selaput dara’ sebagai bukti kegadisan seseorang perempuan.<br /><br /><br />Adakah semua gadis dilahirkan mempunyai selaput dara?<br /><br />Jawapannya : Tidak. Bukan semua gadis mempunyai selaput dara pada vaginanya. Terdapat beberapa kajian di eropah yang mendapati ada bayi perempuan yang lahir tanpa selaput dara.<br /><br /><br />Apakah yang menyebabkan Selaput Dara Pecah?<br /><br />Biarpun hanya sekadar lapisan lendir, selaput dara sangat elastic dan tidak mudah rosak. Selaput dara hanya boleh pecah apabila berlakunya hubungan seksual, rawatan perubatan yang dilakukan pada liang vagina, gangguan penyakit pada saluran vagina atau kemalangan dan aktiviti berat, seperti terlalu aktif bersukan, menunggang basikal, memanjat pokok,adalah sebab-sebab yang berisiko tinggi untuk selaput dara itu pecah..<br /><br /><br /><b>APAKAH TANDA-TANDA GADIS YANG SUDAH HILANG DARA? </b><br /><br />1. DAHI<br /><br />Gadis yang masih suci, dahinya licin. Bila selalu melakukan hubungan seksual, licinnya hilang, malah yang timbul kedutan (garis2) yang kadangkala nampak kadangkala tidak ketika sedang bercakap. Kedutan kerana sudah tidak suci, tidak sama dengan kedutan wajah yang disebabkan faktor usia. Kedutan suci yang telah hilang, tidak begitu ketara dan tidak begitu nampak, kecuali ketika muka menunjukkan reaksi tertentu seperti sedang ketawa dan bercakap, manakala kedutan disebabkan faktor usia sentiasa nampak jelas dan kekal.<br /><br /><br /><br />2 HIDUNG<br /><br />Gadis yang masih suci atau tubuhnya belum disentuh oleh lelaki, hujung hidungnya berwarna kemerah-merahan, jika disentuh hujung hidungnya nampak merah. Gadis yang tidak suci hujung hidungnya merah tetapi merah pucat, terkadang warna merah tidak nampak, yang nampak hanyalah pucat. kalau tak percaya, cuba lihat hujung hidung anak gadis, merahkan.? Bagi lelaki yang suka merosakkan kesucian wanita, hidungnya berbelang, oleh karena itu disebut lelaki hidung belang. Wallahualam..</div>
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<br />3. MATA<br /><br />Dari mana datangnya cinta? Dari mata turun ke hati….. Kita menggunakan mata untuk memandang dan melihat seseorang, cantik ke, seksi ke, menghairahkan ke, dan lain-lain. Selalunya kita memandang wanita cantik hanya dibahagian luar saja, tapi bahagian dalamnya sudah rosak, untuk mengetahui wanita itu masih suci atau tidak, cubalah tengok matanya. Bila bahagian bawah kelopak terlipat sedikit dan terdapat tanda lebam bererti gadis itu sudah tidak suci lagi, mungkin sudah bersuami. lebam yang menunjukkan tidak suci nampak seperti garis-garis hitam di bawah kelopak mata di samping warna hitam di bawah kelopak mata sedikit kelihatan berkedut (berkeriput).<br /><br /><br />4. BUAH DADA<br /><br />Peranan buah dada memang banyak, bukan sekadar menggoda nafsu lelaki saja, tapi buah dada sebagai bukti bahawa gadis itu pernah disentuh atau tidak. Buah dada gadis yang belum pernah disentuh, sentiasa tegang. Tetapi kalau sudah kena sentuhan, buah dada itu tegangnya berkurang dan membesar sedikit daripada ukuran asalnya, lebih kerap disentuh, lebih kendur. Perhatikan gadis ketika berjalan atau berlari, bergerak-gerak dan melambung jatuh (ke bawah) dan berbuai sekali bererti ketegangan sudah hilang. Kalau belum pernah kena sentuhan, walaupun buah dada berbuai disaat berlari tetapi buaiannya tidak terlalu melambung-lambung bererti ketegangan masih ada.<br /><br />Puting buah dada yang pernah kena sentuhan menjadi panjang dan terjojol (keluar) sedikit dari tempat persembunyiannya. Buah dada yang selalu kena ramas akan menjadi lebih besar, dan jangan menuduh gadis yang berbuah dada besar itu kena ramas. Sebab, buah dada yang besar kena ramas dan yang besar kerana faktor semulajadi (alami) memang berbeza.<br /><br /><br />5. GARIS TAPAK TANGAN<br /><br />Gadis yang berkulit tebal dan kasar, cuba perhatikan kedua tapak tangannya, jikalau retak (pecah urat, urat-urat yang menyerupai retak), bukan kerana disebabkan tidak tahan bahan pencuci yang mengandung kimia (alergiC), bererti gadis itu sudah hilang kesuciannya. Gadis yang masih suci, kedua tapak tangannya halus dan licin. Jika kesuciannya telah hilang, kedua tapak tangannya ketika di tekan warnanya pucat tidak merah, jika dipicit terus ia menganjal balik. Satu cara lagi, cuba perhatikan tapak tangan kanan, jika ada garis putus-putus dibahagian tengah bererti kesuciannya telah hilang, bila tidak terputus-putus bererti ada harapan kesuciannya belum hilang. setelah melihat tapak tangan yang kanan, cuba genggam ibu jari tangannya sekejap kira-kira satu minit. bila disaat mengenggam terasa panas (hangat) dan ibu jarinya merah ketika dilepaskan, bererti ada harapan masih suci. Perhatikan pula ibu jarinya, bila nampak pucat sangat walaupun ada rasa panas (hangat) bererti kemungkinan besar kesuciannya sudah diserahkan pada lelaki lain. <br /><br />Cuba pegang erat jari kelingkingnya kira-kira satu minit, kemudian lepaskan. tanyalah bagaimana rasanya ketika dipegang erat dan dilepaskan? Kalau ia menjawab tak ada rasa, mintalah maaf sajalah, kemungkinan ia sudah tidak suci lagi. Tetapi kalau ia menjawab ada rasa rangsangan, jantungnya berdebar-debar atau ada rasa sakit seperti berdenyut-denyut. Alhamdulillah, nampaknya masih suci. (Yang menguji adalah orang laki-laki) ..(Pakai Sarung tangan.. aurat nak kena jaga ( ^_^ )…<br /><br /><br />6. JARI TAPAK TANGAN<br /><br />Dengan jari-jari lah lelaki suka memegang dan menggoda perempuan. perempuan juga begitu. jari-jari adalah kawasan yang paling mudah untuk mengetahui gadis yang suci atau tidak. Caranya cukup mudah. terlebih dahulu berjabat tangan, ketika berjabat tangan ramas-ramaslah tangannya, kalau lelaki bukan mahramnya boleh memegang tangan seorang gadis, itu menunjukkan dara kecil dibahagian tangannya sudah ternodai. Apabila tangan dan jari-jari gadis itu boleh di ramas-ramas bererti peluang untuk memegang tempat-tempat yang lain sudah terbuka luas. Cuba jari-jari gadis itu di belai-belai dan di ramas-ramas dengan lembut, bagaimana perasaan gadis itu?<br /><br />Sentuhan lelaki dijarinya memang memberi satu rasa yang nikmat dan berahi yang tersendiri. Sentuhan tangan sentuhan ajaib, dari tanganlah akan menjalar ke daerah-daerah yang lain. Sentuhan tangan memang syahdu, kalau tak percaya cubalah betapa bahagianya berjalan sambil berpegangan tangan. Bila anda ingin mengetahui gadis itu sudah terbiasa disentuh atau tidak, Cuba hulurkan tangan dan bersalaman dengannya, ketika bersalaman genggamlah tangannya dengan lembut dan cuba sentuh jari kelingking gadis itu. Ketika menyentuh jari kelingkingnya tengoklah wajah gadis itu, apakah dia nampak gelisah dan resah?, kalau dia terkejut dan berubah wajahnya, berkemungkinan besar dia masih suci. walaupun mungkin dia pernah berasmara (ringan-ringan), tapi mungkin belum sampai tertebuk daranya. Jika ketika jari kelingkingnya disentuh kemudian dia nampak macam biasa saja dan tak mahu bersuara, kemungkinan besar kesuciannya sudah tiada. Wallahualam..<br /><br /><br />7. PERUT<br /><br />Peribahasa menyebut, biar pecah di perut jangan pecah di mulut. begitulah kata peribahasa, tapi tubuh wanita bukanlah peribahasa. Kalau pecah daranya, pasti pecah perut. Bila seseorang gadis pernah melakukan hubungan badan, maka perutnya akan menjadi mengembang dan menjadi buncit sedikit.<br /><br /><br />8. RAMBUT<br /><br />Rambut merupakan mahkota wanita tetapi juga berperanan dalam menentukan gadis itu masih suci atau tidak. Gadis yang masih suci, rambutnya kelihatan rapi, segar dan tidak kasar. manakala gadis yang sudah hilang kesuciannya, rambutnya kelihatan tidak bersemangat (kuyu).<br /><br /><br />9. BIBIR<br /><br />Percaya atau tidak bahawa bibir gadis yang pernah dicium lebih menarik dan cantik. Apabila bibir bertemu bibir, maka akan membuat pergerakan darah akan mengalir ke bibir dan membentuk bibir yang baru. Lebih kerap dicium, lebih cantik pula bibirnya. Tapi ada juga gadis yang mempunyai bibir mulut yang cantik walaupun tidak pernah dicium. Gadis yang belum pernah dicium bibirnya kelihatan berwarna merah jambu dan tidak ada garis pucat atau hitam di sekitar bibirnya. Bibir gadis yang tidak pernah dicium tidak nampak lebam dan bibirnya licin dan basah. Bibir yang pernah dicium akan nampak lebam-lebam sedikit walaupun hanya sekali saja, dan juga dapat mengubah bibirnya dimana terdapat garis-garis kasar yang memperindah bentuk bibir. Bila gadis itu tidak suci lagi, bahagian tengah bibirnya nampak retak, seakan-akan terbahagi dua, retaknya tidak begitu jelas, akan tetapi boleh dilihat jika diperhatikan betul-betul.<br /><br /><br />10. FARAJ<br /><br />Ini sudah tentu hanya akan diketahui setelah bernikah. Permukaan gadis yang pernah melakukan hubungan badan, pintu kemaluannya tidak tertutup rapat, agak renggang sedikit dan lebih kembang. Kalau gadis yang masih perawan, kemaluannya sentiasa tertutup rapat. Sebenarnya selaput dara boleh dilihat terus kedalam kemaluan gadis. Bila kemaluan masih tertutup bererti gadis itu masih suci. Kalau lubang itu terbuka sedikit bererti gadis itu sudah tidak perawan lagi.<br /><br /><br />11. LEHER<br /><br />Leher juga menjadi salah satu tempat yang dapat menunjukkan gadis itu masih suci atau tidak. Bila leher perempuan itu nampak berkedut-kedut, ertinya perempuan itu pernah disentuh lelaki. Garis kedutnya bukan seperti garis kedutan akibat dah tua, garisnya kecil-kecil, pendek-pendek dan putus-putus, bukan garis yang panjang. Kalau ingin melihat dengan jelas tunggulah gadis itu menundukkan kepalanya. Lihatlah dengan cepat dan cermat.!. apabila gadis itu kerap keluar dengan lelaki, maka lehernya terdapat tanda-tanda hitam kecil diliang romanya dan warna pucat kecil seperti bintik-bintik. Adakalanya lubang dibulu roma nampak jelas di leher, ini juga bererti gadis itu selalu disentuh. Kalau gadis itu berleher panjang, cuba perhatikan dibahagian lehernya, jika terdapat garis-garis urat yang bersilang ertinya gadis itu masih suci. Jika terdapat garis-garis yang melintang, bukannya urat yang melintang, ini bererti perempuan itu sudah pernah beranak</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-49825794270528657362014-03-12T16:20:00.001-07:002014-03-12T16:20:30.727-07:00Pakar penerbangan sebut 6 sebab kehilangan misteri MH370<div style="text-align: justify;">
Pakar penerbangan sebut 6 sebab kehilangan misteri MH370<br />•Utama •Mutakhir •2014-03-12 08:48 •Disediakan oleh Berita Harian<br /><br />KUALA LUMPUR: Kehilangan misteri pesawat Malaysia Airlines (MAS) Penerbngan MH370 sejak Sabtu lalu terus membingungkan pakar-pakar penerbangan serata dunia. Di tahap ini, seorang pakar penerbangan mengemukakan bukti sejarah yang boleh menjadi penyebab kepada kehilangan pesawat Boeing 777-200ER berusia 11 tahun itu. Sebab-sebab itu adalah gabungan kesilapan teknikal dan juruterbang hingga membawa kepada kesan-kesan terkumpul, kerosakan struktur, faktor kemanusiaan, cuaca buruk, kegagalan total elektrik dan rampasan pesawat. Menurut Perunding Ruang Angkasa dan Pertahanan Frost and Sullivan Asia Pacific, Ravi Madavaram, tidak wujud faktor tunggal yang umumnya menyebabkan pesawat terhempas, tetapi gabungan kerosakan teknikal dan keputusan juruterbang. Dalam satu kenyataan di sini hari ini, beliau berkata kerosakan dan keputusan jika berlaku bersendirian tidak membahayakan. "Ini yang berlaku kepada Air France 447. Tidak ada isyarat kecemasan dari Air France 447 kerana pilot (juruterbang) tidak sedar bahawa mereka akan terhempas hinggalah 10 saat sebelum ia berlaku," katanya. Mengenai kerosakan struktur, Madavaram berkata kegagalan struktur pesawat boleh menyebabkan juruterbang hilang kawalan. "Ini yang berlaku kepada China Airlines Penerbangan 611, semasa terbang di ketinggian 35,000 kaki pada 2002 bila Boeing 747 (Penerbangan 611) terhempas akibat kesilapan dalam pembaikan kerosakan. Menyentuh faktor kemanusiaan, beliau menegaskan tindakan yang disengajakan seumpamanya oleh penumpang atau juruterbang hingga menyebabkan pesawat terhempas telah ditonjolkan dalam insiden World Trade Centre 9/11. Pakar itu menyatakan keadaan cuaca buruk seperti salji, kabus, hujan, dan ais boleh menjejas prestasi pesawat, yang berkemungkinan mengakibatkan pesawat terhempas. "Ini berlaku pada penerbangan sebuah pesawat Qantas pada 2008 di Bangkok. Pesawat itu mendarat dengan selamat dengan tenaga sokongan dari Auxiliary Power Unit (APU)," katanya. Madavaram menolak kemungkinan MH370 dirampas, kerana adalah mustahil bagi pesawat itu terlepas dari semua imbasan radar dalam kawasan penerbangannya. Menjelas lanjut, beliau berkata setiap pesawat sivil komersial mempunyai alat pengesan, Emergency Locator Transmitters (ELT), dan ia akan diaktifkan semasa pesawat terhempas bergantung pada kekuatan hentakan atau maklumat diberikan juruterbang. Beliau berkata satu lagi lampu isyarat (beacon) dilekatkan pada alat perakam penerbangan atau kotak hitam dipanggil Underwater Locator Beacon (ULB), dan lampur isyarat ini akan diaktifkan sebaik saja ia bersentuh dengan air. "Andainya pesawat terhempas di air, ELT akan menghantar isyarat, tetapi ia tidak kalis air. ULB mula menghantar isyarat sebaik saja ia tersentuh dengan air," kata beliau. ELT dan beacon menggunakan bateri sendiri dan kegagalan elektrik tidak menjejas alat-alat ini. "Bateri beacon atau beacon kotak hitam direka untuk hayat 28 hari. Jika beacon kotak hitam padam dan pesawat tidak dikesan dalam tempoh itu, maka satu-satunya harapan ialah mencari serpihan dan dari situ cuba mengesannya dengan gerak berundur," katanya. - BERNAMA<br /><br /><br /><br />Kronologi hari ke-4 kehilangan pesawat MH370<br />•Utama •Mutakhir •2014-03-11 18:50 •Disediakan oleh Berita Harian<br /><br />KUALA LUMPUR: Memasuki hari keempat misteri kehilangan pesawat Malaysia Airlines (MAS) MH370 masih belum terjawab apabila masih belum ditemui biarpun usaha mencari melibatkan pelbagai negara giat dilakukan. Kehilangan misteri pesawat itu merupakan kejadian kedua selepas kehilangan misteri pesawat Air France 447, yang terhempas di Lautan Atlantik ketika terbang dalam ribut dari Rio de Janeiro ke Paris menyebabkan 228 penumpang dan anak kapalterkorban pada 1 Jun 2009. Air France 447 ditemui dua hari selepas ia terhempas dan mengambil masa lebih dua tahun untuk pakar penyiasat mencari penjelasan insiden itu. Berikut kronologi insiden kehilangan MH370:* 8 Mac - Pesawat MH370, jenis Boeing 777-200, membawa 239 penumpang dan anak kapal berlepas dari Lapangan Terbang Antarabangsa KL (KLIA) pada 12.41 tengah malam dan dijadualkan mendarat di Beijing, China pada 6.30 pagi pada hari yang sama.* 8 Mac - Pesawat MH370 dilaporkan hilang daripada radar pada 1.30 pagi 120 batu nautika di perairan timur Kota Baharu, Kelantan.* 8 Mac - Operasi mencari dan menyelamat (SAR) digerakkan pada 5.30 pagi melibatkan 15 pesawat Tentera Udara Diraja Malaysia (TUDM), termasuk empat Hercules C130, sebuah CN 235, empat EC 725, dua helikopter Augusta serta enam kapal Tentera Laut Diraja Malaysia (TLDM) dan tiga kapal Agensi Penguatkuasa Maritim Malaysia (APMM). * 8 Mac - Kenyataan media daripada Ketua Pegawai Eksekutif Kumpulan MAS, Ahmad Jauhari Yahya pada 7.30 pagi mengesahkan kehilangan pesawat itu, kesemua keluarga penumpang telah dimaklumkan dan pecahan kerakyatan penumpang MH370 iaitu 38 rakyat Malaysia, 153 rakyat China, Indonesia (12), Australia (7), Perancis (3), Amerika Syarikat (3), New Zealand (2), Ukraine (2), Kanada (2), Rusia (1), Itali (1), Taiwan (1), Belanda (1) dan Austria (1).* 8 Mac - Perdana Menteri, Datuk Seri Najib Razak dan Timbalan Perdana Menteri, Tan Sri Muhyiddin Yassin melawat anggota keluarga penumpang dan anak kapal MH370.* 9 Mac - Bantuan luar negara tiba dalam operasi SAR mencari MH370 melibatkan 34 pesawat dan 40 kapal laut membabitkan aset negara dan luar negara iaitu daripada China, Thailand, Vietnam, Amerika Syarikat, Australia, Indonesia dan Singapura. * 9 Mac - Panglima Angkatan Tentera Tan Sri Zulkifeli Mohd Zin berkata kawasan pencarian diperluaskan di Laut China Selatan hingga ke Selat Melaka.* 9 Mac - Ketua Pengarah Jabatan Penerbangan Awam (DCA), Datuk Azharuddin Abdul Rahman mengesahkan hanya dua penumpang yang mempunyai pasport palsu, daripada negara Itali dan Austria, menaiki pesawat MH370.* 9 Mac - APMM menghantar sampel tompokan minyak ditemui di kawasan Laut China Selatan, 100 batu nautika dari pantai Tok Bali dekat sini ke Jabatan Kimia di Petaling Jaya untuk dianalisis.* 10 Mac - Perdana Menteri, Datuk Seri Najib Razak berkata kerajaan telah menerima tawaran daripada Perdana Menteri New Zealand John Key, yang menghantar pesawat pengesan maritim P-3C Orion bagi menyertai operasi mencari dan menyelamat pesawat MH370 yang hilang.* 10 Mac - APMM mengesahkan tompokan minyak dijumpai di Laut China Selatan semalam hanyalah minyak bunker yang memang tidak digunakan oleh kapal terbang.* 10 Mac - Pegawai Meteorologi Pusat Cuaca Nasional, Jabatan Meteorologi Malaysia, Khairul Najib Ibrahim berkata tiada sebarang perubahan cuaca ketara berhampiran perairan negara yang dilihat boleh mengancam penerbangan pesawat MH370 sewaktu ia dilaporkan hilang. - BERNAMA <br /><br /><br />Nelayan Port Dickson dakwa temui objek mirip rakit penyelamat pesawat<br />•Utama •Mutakhir •2014-03-12 14:50 •Disediakan oleh Berita Harian <br /><br />PORT DICKSON: Sekumpulan nelayan mendakwa menemui satu objek menyerupai rakit penyelamat kapal terbang ketika menangkap ikan, kira-kira 10 batu nautika dari pantai di sini, tengah hari semalam. Seorang daripada mereka yang dikenali sebagai Azman berkata, ia ditemui tenggelam timbul kira-kira jam 12 tengah hari dan menghubungi Agensi Penguatkuasaan Maritim Malaysia (APMM) di Kuala Linggi sebelum jurucakap APMM mengesahkan sepasukan APMM dihantar ke tempat kejadian<br /><br /><br />Ahli keluarga penumpang MH370 dikawal ketat<br />•Utama •Mutakhir •2014-03-08 14:50 •Disediakan oleh Berita Harian<br /><br />SEPANG: Setiap ahli keluarga penumpang pesawat MAS MH370 dikawal ketat pasukan keselamatan dan media tidak dibenarkan mendekati atau menemubual mereka.<br /><br />Kelihatan seorang wanita lingkungan 50-an sebak sebelum diiringi memasuki Anjung Tinjau KLIA tempat keluarga mangsa berkumpul.<br /><br /><br />MH370: Semua maklumat disiasat - Abdul Rahim<br />•Utama •Mutakhir •2014-03-12 20:50 •Disediakan oleh Berita Harian<br /><br />KAJANG: Kerajaan tidak pernah mengabaikan sebarang maklumat termasuk yang disebarkan di media sosial dalam usaha menyelesaikan misteri kehilangan pesawat MH370 sejak Sabtu lalu. Timbalan Menteri Pertahanan, Datuk Abdul Rahim Bakri, berkata setiap maklumat yang diterima akan disiasat dan diteliti pasukan penyiasat bagi mempercepatkan operasi mencari dan menyelamat (SAR) penumpang dan anak kapal pesawat MAS itu. Biarpun analisis dan pandangan tidak tepat khususnya di laman sosial sikit sebanyak mengganggu operasi SAR, beliau berkata ada maklumat yang boleh diguna pakai untuk membantu operasi berkenaan. "Apa saja maklumat yang berwibawa akan dilihat pihak penyiasat walaupun banyak perkara dianggap 'rubbish' tetapi ada juga perkara yang kita boleh guna pakai untuk membantu operasi SAR. "Kalau kita abaikan maklumat yang diperoleh, kita mungkin tidak dapat mencarinya dengan baik sebab itu kita beri perhatian terhadap apa juga maklumat yang dianggap berwibawa," katanya pada sidang media di sini, petang tadi. Beliau ditemui di majlis Jasamu Dikenang Bersama Veteran Angkatan Tentera Malaysia (ATM) di Sekolah Kebangsaan (SK) Leftenan Adnan. Majlis anjuran Jabatan Hal Ehwal Veteran ATM itu bagi mengingati jasa pahlawan era Perang Dunia Kedua, Allahyarham Leftenan Adnan Saidi yang terkorban ditangan askar Jepun di Bukit Chandu, Singapura pada 14 Februari 1942. </div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-71651416342653524752012-12-28T17:04:00.000-08:002012-12-28T17:04:09.401-08:00Lirik Lagu AdaMu – Najwa Latif<div style="text-align: center;">
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<br />Merenung ke luar jendela<br />Melihat kebesarannya<br />Mensyukuri segala nikmat<br />Yang dikurniakan di dunia<br /><br />Kau berikan ku kekuatan<br />Tuk berpegang pada jalan<br />Walau penuh dengan cabaran<br />Ku tahu ku adaMu Tuhan<br /><br />Kerna kau yang satu<br />Yang setia bersama ku<br />Dikala ku jatuh ku bangkit kernaMu<br />Ku tahu ku adaMu disisi ku selalu<br />Bantulah hambaMu mencari keredhaanMu<br /><br />Ku tahu ku adaMu<br />Ku adaMu selalu<br /><br />Kerna kau yang satu<br />Yang setia bersama ku<br />Dikala ku jatuh ku bangkit kernaMu<br />Ku tahu ku adaMu disisi ku selalu<br />Bantulah hambaMu mencari keredhaanMu<br /><br />Ku tahu ku adaMu<br />Ku adaMu selalu<br /><br />ku merenung ke luar jendela<br />Melihat kebesarannya<br />Walau penuh dengan cabaran<br />Ku tahu ku adaMu Tuhan</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-39218492258337136692012-12-28T17:02:00.002-08:002012-12-28T17:02:38.551-08:00Lirik Lagu Percintaan Ini – Ezad Lazim<div style="text-align: center;">
<b>Lirik Lagu Percintaan Ini – Ezad Lazim</b></div>
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<br />Masih terbayang di ruangan mataku<br />Saat indah bersamamu dulu<br />Masihku ingat janji manismu<br />Bertakhta di hatiku<br />Oo oo oo<br /><br />Di kala itu engkau lah bintang<br />Menyuluh malam yang kegelapan<br />Tetapi kini tiada lagi<br />Tinggal aku sendiri<br /><br />Percintaan ini amat memilukan<br />Perpisahan ini sungguh menyakitkan<br />Namun apa daya terpaksa ku telan semua kepahitan<br /><br />Kepiluan ini meracun hidupku<br />Kesunyian ini membunuh jiwaku<br />Tergamak kau sayang<br />Melihat diriku dalam kesedihan<br />Dipermainkan olehmu<br /><br />Sia–sia saja percintaan ini<br />Tak bisa sampai ke puncaknya<br />Sekelip mata hilang semuanya<br />Yang tinggal hanya airmata<br /><br />Oo oo oo<br /><br />Percintaan ini amat memilukan<br />Perpisahan ini sungguh menyakitkan<br />Namun apa daya terpaksa ku telan semua kepahitan<br /><br />Kepiluan ini meracun hidupku<br />Kesunyian ini membunuh jiwaku<br />Tergamak kau sayang<br />Melihat diriku dalam kesedihan<br />Dipermainkan olehmu<br /><br />Sia–sia saja percintaan ini<br />Tak bisa sampai ke puncaknya<br />Sekelip mata hilang semuanya<br />Yang tinggal hanya airmata<br /><br />Oo oo oo</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-48531198751230079432012-12-14T08:25:00.001-08:002012-12-14T08:25:13.754-08:00Peraduan Kahwiniku! tawar hadiah RM80,000<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>Peraduan Kahwiniku! tawar hadiah RM80,000<br />2012-12-10 Disediakan oleh Berita Harian</b><br /><br />Edaran Tan Chong Motor Sdn Bhd (ETCM) menawarkan hadiah bernilai sehingga RM80,000 dalam peraduan Kahwiniku! Dedikasi Cinta yang bermula 6 Disember ini sehingga 17 Januari tahun depan.<br /><br />Pengarah Eksekutifnya, Datuk Dr Ang Bon Beng (gambar), berkata apa yang perlu dilakukan untuk menyertai peraduan julung kali dianjurkan pihaknya itu ialah peserta menyatakan dedikasi cinta mereka di laman Facebook Nissan Malaysia dengan cara paling kreatif sama ada menerusi sekeping gambar atau video.<br /><br />Penyertaan teratas<br /><br />Beliau berkata, 10 penyertaan teratas dengan mengumpul ‘Like’ paling banyak akan dinobatkan sebagai pemenang.<br /><br />"Pemenang hadiah utama akan berpeluang untuk meraikan detik cinta mereka dengan penuh bergaya menerusi iringan kereta perkahwinan mewah membabitkan sebuah Nissan Teana dan empat buah Nissan ALMERA serta jurugambar yang akan merakamkan saat bersejarah itu.<br /><br />Wang tunai<br /><br />“Selain itu, mereka bakal menerima wang tunai sebanyak RM5,000, penginapan percuma selama tiga hari dua malam di Hotel Grand Lexis, Port Dickson.<br /><br />Hadiah lain, sepasang jam tangan Ellese, set penjagaan rambut profesional Shiseido, tilam Bio Magnetic, satu set Fujifilm Instax dan baucar servis bernilai RM500 daripada Tan Chong Express Auto Service (TCEAS)” katanya pada satu kenyataan dikeluarkan semalam.<br /><br />Ang berkata, peraduan sebagai lanjutan daripada iklan lamaran Nissan ALMERA yang popular ditayangkan di televisyen, yang menggambarkan seorang pemuda melamar gadis dicintainya menerusi cara yang unik tetapi menyentuh hati dan perasaan sekali gus berjaya menambat hati mereka yang menontonnya.<br /><br />Beliau berkata, pihaknya percaya ramai pasangan muda akan mengambil bahagian dalam peraduan berkenaan kerana memahami keinginan mereka untuk memiliki kereta keluarga yang pertama.<br /><br />Katanya, syarikat sentiasa berusaha mencari cara yang kreatif untuk berhubung dengan pelanggan dengan kali ini ia disasarkan kepada pasangan muda dan yang sudah berkeluarga.<br /><br />Model terbaru<br /><br />Sementara itu, Ang berkata, kenderaan keluaran Nissan sememangnya diterima baik oleh keluarga di Malaysia yang sangat dikenali kerana kualiti reka bentuk, tahan lasak dan kecekapan penggunaan bahan api.<br /><br />“Ini tidak terkecuali untuk model terbaru kami iaitu Nissan ALMERA yang kini menerajui sedan segmen B dengan ruang kabin dan kargonya yang luas tanpa mengorbankan reka bentuk luaran yang kemas,” katanya.<br /><br />Untuk maklumat lanjut mengenai peraduan ini, sila layari laman Facebook Nissan Malaysia di alamat: www.facebook.com/NissanMalaysia. </div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-4126877600359265422012-12-14T08:20:00.001-08:002012-12-14T08:20:20.345-08:00Kahwin Semula Dapat 2 RIBU RINGGIT - RM2000 untuk Ibu Tunggal<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>Ibu tunggal berkahwin semula dapat RM2,000<br />2012-12-14 Disediakan oleh Berita Harian</b><br /><br />Kuala Terengganu: Ibu tunggal di negeri ini yang berkahwin semula akan menerima sumbangan wang tunai RM2,000 daripada kerajaan negeri.<br /><br />Bagi ibu tunggal berkahwin semula dengan bapa tunggal, mereka layak mendapat sumbangan RM4,000.<br /><br />Sehubungan itu, kerajaan negeri akan menjalankan kempen kesejahteraan rumah tangga bagi menggalakkan ibu tunggal berkahwin semula.<br /><br />Pengerusi Jawatankuasa Kebajikan, Pembangunan Masyarakat dan Wanita negeri, Datuk Yahya Khatib Mohamad, berkata pemberian sumbangan itu berkuat kuasa mulai 1 Januari tahun depan</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-53700920973187072472012-12-14T08:17:00.001-08:002012-12-14T08:17:04.455-08:0012 Disember 2012 Bukan Tarikh Perkahwinan Popular<div style="text-align: justify;">
Mungkin ada yang menyangka tarikh 12 Disember 2012 merupakan tarikh istimewa yang menjadi pilihan para pengantin baru untuk melangsungkan kisah cinta mereka, tetapi realiti sebenarnya tidak begitu. Ini berdasarkan pandangan beberapa orang guru feng shui dari China yang menggambarkan bahawa tarikh 12 Disember 2012 bukanlah tarik yang sesuai untuk berkahwin.</div>
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<b>Tak ramai kahwin 12 Disember 2012<br />Disediakan oleh Berita Harian</b><br /><br />Hong Kong: Bilangan pasangan di Hong Kong yang merancang berkahwin pada 12.12.12, tarikh yang diramalkan guru feng shui sebagai paling bertuah, dilihat semakin berkurangan berbanding tarikh 11.11.11 tahun lalu.<br /><br />Tarikh seperti 10.10.10 atau 11.11.11 secara tradisi menyaksikan ramai pasangan yang akan berkahwin, tetapi beberapa guru feng shui China berkata tarikh 12 Disember tahun ini yang dilihat sebagai menandakan ‘cinta’ adalah tidak sesuai untuk berkahwin.<br /><br />Pendaftaran perkahwinan Hong Kong hanya menerima 696 permohonan daripada pasangan yang merancang untuk berkahwin pada Rabu ini, kata seorang jurucakap jabatan imigresen yang memantau pendaftaran terbabit yang dihubungi AFP.<br /><br />Ini satu penurunan besar berbanding 1,002 perkahwinan pada 11 November tahun lalu yang menandakan ‘cinta abadi’, manakala 859 perkahwinan pada 10 Oktober 2010 yang dilihat sebagai ‘kesempurnaan.’<br /><br />Feng shui satu kepercayaan kuno China yang biasanya menyalurkan kuasa psikik baik dan buruk melalui susunan perabot atau perhiasan. Ia juga turut menentukan tarikh bertuah.<br /><br />Guru feng shui, Sammy Au yang dipetik akhbar The Standard berkata tarikh 12.12.12 berkenaan tidak sesuai untuk perkahwinan tetapi disifatkan sebagai sekadar ‘tarikh agak bertuah’.<br /><br />Au sebaliknya memilih tarikh 18 dan 31 Disember yang diramalkan sebagai tarikh yang lebih baik. - AFP </div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-18702291871173948922012-12-09T08:33:00.000-08:002012-12-09T08:33:03.660-08:0010 Sign of Love Women Reject Men<div style="text-align: justify;">
10 Sign of Love Women Reject Men<br /><br />Have you ever looked at a very attractive woman and later want to approach it? Instinctively want to close and know someone is very common for a man or woman.<br /><br />When it started to know, you want far more reaching out himself, if possible, want love, love him and want to always be beside. But sometimes you just conclude dream. Girls that we like is like "are tame pigeons". He looked like he was really pleased you just assume you're not so special in his heart. Here are the signs of a real girl "push" your invitation to be your partner. If you've seen a sign like this, be careful. Do not be too put faith.<br /><br />1. He did not return calls you Who does not cheerful when she phoned him. Even just say hello news or singing romantic words, it is a long-awaited. But when you call and he avoided answering it early signs you're not so special. Even worse if you leave a message and he did not respond.<br /><br />2. He tried to 'arranged' you with his If your voice is in the hearts, suddenly you see the girl tells his match or so-and-so and so-and-so. He fervently praised Akin others and convince you that you mistakenly chose. He actually did not seem very interested in you.<br /><br />3. No body language Other words, body language gives many signs. Of view, to touch hands and so it reflects he is happy. If not all of it, you're just normal friends for him.<br /><br />4. Well refuse your invitation When are saying, in fact people are willing to sacrifice anything. But even if he did feel intimidated by you when you call him out, have sunk significant or not you ascribe his side.<br /><br />5. Not wanting to be too closely intertwined relationship From introductory greetings you want to forge a closer relationship. Even if you can love wholeheartedly. But if he is pushing you earlier and told not want a serious relationship, get that self-explanatory.<br /><br />6. He gave more attention to 'friend' you. In a session with my friends, when your friends make jokes, the joy he laughed, as if to tell the joke pleased. In fact every time you open your mouth bacteria friends, so that she Looks so impressed. But when you talk, the less attention he even often cut your conversation as quickly as possible.<br /><br />7. He talked about other men except Brad Pitt, who is famous with ketampanannya, the reason he did not hesitate to talk about another guy in front of you every time you go out together. Si he Akin said he was impressed with the charisma of her without completely ignoring your feelings. If this is what happened, who doth understand you beside. Better not too noticed!<br /><br />8. She always bring friends together Imagine your situation every time you want to call him out, so that she agrees with you the invitation. He met you but unfortunately in the meeting, he also brought along his friend. This shows that he is not the kind of want to disappoint your feelings and that's why he agreed to bring a friend to accompany him. You actually can not otherwise be disagreeable aware, he is not to go out with you.<br /><br />9. Si he did not introduce his friends Another sign that the he was not interested in continuing a relationship with you is when the one she never wanted to introduce one to your best friend. He may be able to talk or chat with you, but he hid his friends from you.<br /><br />10. She push invitation you out This is probably the last thing you should take note. Every time you call him out, so that she deliberately gave various reasons as long as you do not go out with. Therefore, if you asked him 10 times, but only once or twice, celebrated, that means he is not directly interested in you.<br /></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-91768233680269912162012-12-09T08:30:00.000-08:002012-12-09T08:30:28.486-08:00How To Reaching People We Like?<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>How To Reaching People We Like?</b></div>
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You may not agree with me this time Love Tips. Many find it hard or awkward when starting a relationship on the basis of the first companions, and then start the love relationship. Most of what I see, they are fighting, argumentative, really mad at each other. Everything turbulence, when already old friends, everything concerning their already know, understand and would not be able to think tone of voice! hehehe ... funny huh.<br /><br />But, is not that the most important? Know and understand the heart and feeling our partner? Before you say this tip somewhat less effective, what you say first try hehe ... </div>
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<br />Basically, anyone who 'looking for love', or want a love relationship, things always become their problem is, no friend of the opposite sex for a place to complain! If women with women ... it may be recalled, man and man shall jugak. BUT ... women are more comfortable telling stories with male friends because they better understand women's feelings. Vice versa!<br /><br />Nahh ... that's what I say, "Be the best friend FIRST!"<br /><br />When you are breaking the defense to him, by becoming her best friend ... you guys are pretty easy to reach. In fact most likely, a loose looking him right up! Because, these people really need someone who can be with them all the time, to listen to their problems, complaints and expressions of a grieving heart not being able to love you desire. Then, if possible, her best friend ni agree with whatever their decision, to understand what she wants.<br /><br />Who else can be so if it was not a good friend? Must be a very reliable person, someone she knows, no hope and feeling in love with him.<br /><br />Simply, many people made a mistake by starting a relationship with someone who is keen to be in love first, then going to be a new best friend ... the road going beb! He must be a little cautious or suspicious of you, busy going to cover aje lah! .. But if with good friends ... exhausted even tells a story in the nets!<br /><br />So ... 1st thing 1st! .. be the best friend first, because when you have become good friends, in addition to a place he called you, the more you trust him to thicken, you guys so that she is sure the more closely ... so, you also have the opportunity to show you the best of themselves , but you also get to see that one of his favorite people ... and therefore how you can do much better than him! So much so that she began to see the benefits you, Then I guess, sure he could feel the loss if he had not started a romance with you. So, "Be the best friend FIRST!"</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-55665560394731612352012-12-08T23:48:00.001-08:002012-12-08T23:48:23.123-08:00Grounded Love<div style="text-align: center;">
When I in love, I grounded. </div>
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Please tell me why?</div>
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I do not want to be grounded.</div>
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I love you so much. </div>
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This is the end of love.</div>
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I die because of love. </div>
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Love kill me.</div>
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Love grounded me. </div>
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Is that true? </div>
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When someone chase their career,</div>
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love have became a burden? </div>
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Do you think so? </div>
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But I in confusing. </div>
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Love make me grounded.</div>
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Love is everywhere. </div>
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Everywhere I grounded. </div>
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Oh, love. </div>
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Oh, grounded.</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-90936190866025351792012-12-08T23:44:00.002-08:002012-12-08T23:44:59.625-08:00Secret Love couple of Excellence<div style="text-align: justify;">
<span class="" id="result_box" lang="en"><span title="Rahsia Cinta Pasangan Yang Cemerlang."><b>Secret Love couple of Excellence</b><br /></span><span title="Pasangan Yang Cemerlang – Semua orang yang berpasangan ingin mempunyai sebuah perhubungan yang sentiasa ceria, kukuh, mantap, penuh dengan cinta dan romantik, dan juga kalau boleh tidak berlaku konflik di dalamnya.">Pair
of Excellence - Everyone who wants to have a relationship pairing that
always cheerful, strong, steady, full of love and romance, and even if
it can not be a conflict in it. </span><span title="Namun “tradisi” dalam perhubungan itu sendiri tidak memungkinkan ia bebas dari berlakunya perselisihan faham, “bermasam-muka”, terasa hati dan “perkara-perkara yang sewaktu dengannya.”">But
"tradition" in the relationship itself does not allow it free from
conflicting interpretations, "knit-to-face", and offended "when things
with it."<br /></span><span title="Pasangan yang cemerlang bertengkar dengan bersebab.">Excellent pair quarreled with reason. </span><span title="Mereka tidak bergaduh besar dan tidak terlalu mengikut emosi bila keadaan menjadi tegang.">They do not fight too large and not by emotions when things got tense. </span><span title="Pasangan yang tidak berfungsi dengan sempurna juga bertengkar atau mungkin tidak, tetapi apa yang pasti ada pada pasangan seperti ini ialah mereka menyimpan perasaan tidak puas hati dan selalunya membenarkan perasaan ini bertambah dalam diri.">Couples
who do not function properly or may not be too argumentative, but what
is sure is there in these couples is that they keep dissatisfaction and
often allow this feeling grew inside. </span><span title="Masalah utama kepada setiap pasangan ialah perasaan tidak puas hati dan geram.">The main problem to each partner is feeling discontent and exasperation. </span><span title="Ia umpama barah yang merebak tanpa disedari dan mempengaruhi dalam tindakan dan perkara yang lain.">It is like a cancer that spreads unnoticed and affect in action and other things. </span><span title="Bila perasaan ini semakin terbina dalam diri, bertambah dan berkembang, ia mula memberi kesan ke atas persepsi kita terhadap pasangan.">When this feeling is a built-in self, grew and grew, it began to have an impact on our perception of the couple. </span><span title="Trauma semasa kanak-kanak atau perhubungan yang lepas selalu juga menghasilkan perasaan geram/tidak puas hati yang ditujukan dalam sesuatu perhubungan yang baru.">Trauma during childhood or past relationships often also produce resentment / dissatisfaction addressed in a new relationship.<br /></span><span title="Macamana seseorang boleh jadi seperti ini?">How can someone be so like this? </span><span title="Perasaan tidak puas hati adalah perasaan marah atau geram yang terkumpul atau bertambah secara perlahan-lahan dalam diri seseorang akibat daripada melakukan atau memberi sesuatu dengan berlebihan berbanding dari apa yang diperolehi.">Dissatisfaction
are feelings of anger or resentment that accumulated or increased
slowly in a person as a result of doing or giving something to excess
than of what is available. </span><span title="Memberi dengan berlebihan dari apa yang anda dapat semula adalah baik sekiranya ia berpada-pada.">Giving in excess of what you get back is good if it sparingly. </span><span title="Namun, tiba pada satu masa ini akan membuatkan seseorang itu rasa ditipu atau dipermainkan.">However, arriving at a time will make a person feel cheated or manipulated.<br /></span><span title="Ramai wanita percaya bila seorang lelaki hadir dalam hidupnya, inilah masa untuk dia menerima.">Many women believe that when a man is present in his life, it is time for him to accept. </span><span title="Dalam hati dia berkata, “Akhirnya, aku dah ada seseorang untuk menjaga, mengambil berat kepada aku seperti aku mengambil berat terhadap orang lain.” Hakikatnya lelaki itu tidak tahu pun bahawa dia sepatutnya mengisi segala kekosongan yang wanita itu ada dan fikirkan.">In
the liver, he said, "Finally, I've no one to take care, concern to me
as I take care of the others." In fact, the man did not know that he was
supposed to fill the void that the woman there and think.<br /></span><span title="Anda perlu ingat perkara ini.">You have to remember this. </span><span title="Lelaki bukanlah satu kejadian yang dapat memahami diri anda dengan mudah.">Man is not an event to be able to understand yourself easily. </span><span title="Sekiranya anda tidak memberitahu dan tunjukkan kepadanya bila dia melakukan sesuatu yang melukakan hati anda, kebarangkalian dia terus melakukan perkara yang sama itu tinggi kerana dia tidak tahu, tidak sedar yang dia telah melukakan anda.">If
you do not tell and show him when he did something to hurt you, the
probability that he continues to do the same thing that high because he
did not know, did not realize that he has hurt you. </span><span title="Ini pasti akan menambahkan lagi luka di hati anda kerana kelihatannya dia hanya “buat bodoh” seolah-olah tidak ada apa pun yang berlaku">This will definitely add to the wound in your heart because it seems he just "do stupid" as if nothing happened<br /></span><span title="Sebagai orang yang matang dan dewasa, konflik sentiasa dihadapi dalam sesuatu perhubungan intim dan istimewa.">As a mature and adult, conflict has always faced in an intimate and special relationship. </span><span title="Kalau anda ingin berada dalam sesuatu perhubungan dan dalam masa yang sama anda tidak mahu mengambil risiko, anda perlu lupakan sahaja idea atau impian untuk berpasangan apatah lagi berkahwin.">If
you want to be in a relationship and at the same time you do not want
to take the risk, you should forget about the idea or dream to pair let
alone married. </span><span title="Terlibat dalam sebuah perhubungan sebagai seorang yang matang dan dewasa bermakna anda perlu dan mesti berhadapan serta mengambil risiko.">Involved in a relationship as a mature and adult means that you need and must be confronted and risk-taking.<br /></span><span title="Ada masanya anda perlu berkata sesuatu, menunjukkan, dan menegaskan sesuatu perkara dan bertanya sesuatu soalan yang kelihatan seolah-olah memalukan atau melukakan pasangan anda.">There
are times when you have to say something, show, and asserts a thing and
ask a question seem embarrassing or hurt your partner. </span><span title="Sekiranya anda tidak mampu atau tidak boleh mengambil risiko dalam perhubungan bersama pasangan anda, sesuatu yang pasti, anda tidak mungkin jadi semakin intim dengannya.">If
you can not afford or can not take the risk in the relationship with
your spouse, a sure thing, you may not be getting intimate with her. </span><span title="Tentang isu tertentu yang anda rasa pasti anda tidak perlu timbulkan, maka janganlah langsung anda timbulkan perkara tersebut.">About a particular issue that you feel sure you do not have to raise it, then do not you raise the matter directly.<br /></span><span title="Menekan/memendam perasaan marah memberi kesan ke atas bahagian yang paling penting dalam diri setiap wanita, HATInya.">Pressing / suppress anger have an impact on the most important part in each and every woman, her heart. </span><span title="Ini adalah bahagian yang kita semua miliki dalam diri kita.">This is the part that we all have within us. </span><span title="Ia adalah separuh daripada psikologi kita yang dipanggil bahagian yang mempunyai tindakan luar sedar dan tugas utamanya adalah untuk melindungi dan membolehkan kita terus hidup.">It is part of our psychologists have called the outer conscious action and its main task is to protect and allow us to live.<br /></span><span title="Sewaktu kita kecil, bahagian ini bertanggungjawab dalam membantu untuk kita terus hidup dan mendapat kekuatan.">When we were small, the division responsible for our help to survive and gain strength. </span><span title="Bila kita rasa terancam, bahagian luar sedar ini mula bertindak sebagai pertahanan untuk keselamatan diri apatah lagi bila ibu bapa atau penjaga kita tidak melakukan sesuatu, HATI kita akan mula bertindak dalam mod untuk menyelamatkan kita.">When
we feel threatened, the exterior of this conscious began to act as a
defense for the safety of themselves let alone their parents or
guardians when we do not do something, we would LOVE to start work in a
mode to save us.<br /></span><span title="Untuk menggambarkan perkara ini, andaikan anda berada dalam sebuah keluarga.">To illustrate this point, suppose you are in a family. </span><span title="Dalam keluarga ini, anda berasa seolah-olah tidak mendapatkan kasih-sayang (atau tidak difahami, tidak cukup selamat, dsb).">In this family, you feel as if not getting love (or do not understand, is not safe enough, etc.). </span><span title="Mungkin juga tidak mendapatkan kemesraan yang mencukupi.">May well not get adequate warmth. </span><span title="Dalam keadaan ini, hati anda perlu mencari jalan untuk menyelamatkan kanak-kanak yang masih tidak berdaya ini, supaya anda dapat mengharungi situasi yang seumpama itu.">In
this situation, your heart must find a way to save the children who are
still not competitive, so that you can face such situations. </span><span title="Terasa juga ingin mengadu kepada orang lain tetapi anda terfikir apakah yang mereka boleh buat?">Have also want to complain to someone else but you ever wonder what they can do? </span><span title="Akhirnya, hati anda meyakinkan anda yang anda sebenarnya tidak perlukan kasih-sayang sama sekali.">Finally, you convince your heart that you really do not need love at all.<br /></span><span title="Dalam usaha untuk membuatkan anda rasa tenang, hati anda berkata, “Anda tak perlu rasa disayangi.">In an effort to make you feel relaxed, your heart says, "You do not need to feel loved. </span><span title="Percayalah, anda akan ok tanpanya”.">Believe me, you'll be ok without it ". </span><span title="Hati anda perlu “menipu” anda dan meyakinkan anda bahawa apa juga kehilangan yang anda rasakan adalah tidak penting dan anda tidak perlu rasa kecewa.">Your
heart needs to "trick" you and convince you that any loss that you feel
is not important and you do not have to feel disappointed. </span><span title="Ini membolehkan anda membesar dan dalam masa yang sama anda tidak sedar betapa sebenarnya anda sangat memerlukan kasih sayang dan belaian.">This allows you to grow and at the same time you do not realize you really are in need of love and tenderness.<br /></span><span title="Kemudian, hanya untuk memberi peringatan kepada anda ya, keadaan ini akan meletakkan seolah-olah satu pagar kawat yang berduri di sekeliling hati anda supaya bila ada sahaja harapan yang anda rasa atau letakkan ke atas sesuatu atau seseorang, hati anda yang dipagari itu akan mengingatkan anda">Then,
just to warn you so, this would seem to put a barbed wire fence around
your heart so that when there is only hope that you feel or put on
something or someone, your heart is enclosed will remind you </span><span title="bahawa menaruh harapan hanya akan melukakan anda dan membuat anda kecewa.">that hope will only hurt you and make you frustrated. </span><span title="Bila saya katakan pagar kawat yang berduri, saya merujuk kepada perasaan yang kuat seperti ketakutan, keraguan, kekecewaan atau kelukaan.">When I say a barbed wire fence, I am referring to the strong feelings such as fear, doubt, disappointment or hurt.<br /></span><span title="Perkara seperti ini mungkin berjaya dilakukan dengan baik ketika zaman kanak-kanak dan kemudian anda pun dewasa.">Things like this may be successfully done well during childhood and then you are already adults. </span><span title="Semakin anda meningkat dewasa, sesuatu dalam diri anda mula berkata, “Tidak, sebenarnya aku inginkan satu perhubungan di mana aku disayangi, dibelai dan dimanja”.">As you grow older, something in you began to say, "No, actually I want a relationship where I loved, caressed and spoiled". </span><span title="Jadi anda mula membenarkan orang lain mendekati anda dan sebagaimana dalam “dating”, perkenalan, percintaan, berpasangan, atau pun perkahwinan, pada peringkat awal hampir segalanya amatlah indah.">So
you start to let other people approach you and as in "dating",
relationship, romance, couple, or even a wedding, at an early stage
almost everything is very beautiful.<br /></span><span title="Namun demikian, perasaan yang indah ini mula membawa kembali kenangan dilukai dan kekecewaan yang telah anda lalui, iaitu kenangan semasa kecil dahulu bila anda mula menaruh harapan hanya untuk dilukai kemudiannya.">However,
this wonderful feeling began to bring back memories of hurt and
disappointment you have experienced, the memories of when I was small
when you begin to have hope only to hurt later. </span><span title="Jadi pagar kawat yang berduri ini mula menjelma dan menaikkan dirinya di sekeliling hati anda dan tanpa sebab-sebab yang jelas, anda mula mensabotaj perhubungan anda sendiri.">So
the barbed wire fence was first manifests and raise himself around your
heart and without a clear reason, you start sabotaging your own
relationship. </span><span title="Dalam masa yang sama, pasangan anda terpinga-pinga dan tertanya-tanya, apa salahnya dia?">At the same time, your partner confounded and wonder, what is wrong with him?<br /></span><span title="Baiklah, dari perspektif hati anda, anda sedang dilindungi.">Well, from the perspective of your heart, you are protected. </span><span title="Hati anda merasakan yang anda berkemungkinan akan dilukai sekali lagi.">You feel that your heart is likely to be hurt again. </span><span title="Walaupun anda bukan lagi kanak-kanak pada masa ini, perhubungan membuatkan anda “terdedah” seperti mana kita semua masih di zaman kanak-kanak.">Although you are no longer a child at this time, the relationship makes you "vulnerable" as we are all still in childhood. </span><span title="Sebab itu, bila kita terluka atau terasa hati, kita selalu bertindak primitif dan segalanya dirasakan bersifat peribadi.">That's why, when we are hurt or offended, we always act as primitive and everything felt personal. </span><span title="Ini sebabnya kebanyakan lelaki dilihat sukar untuk memberi komitmen dan kebanyakan wanita sukar untuk membenarkan seseorang mendekatinya atau mempunyai sebuah perhubungan yang berkekalan.">This
is why most men see it difficult to commit and most women find it hard
to allow someone to approach or have a lasting relationship. </span><span title="Hati mereka percaya mereka masih lagi memerlukan perlindungan walaupun ini akan menjauhkan mereka daripada sebuah perhubungan yang mereka sangat inginkan.">Hearts they believe they still need protection even if this will keep them away from a relationship that they are very wanted.<br /></span><span title="Sekarang, macamana anda ingin mengetahui bagaimana sekiranya perkara seperti ini sedang berlaku dalam hidup anda?">Now, how you would like to know how if this sort of thing is going on in your life?<br /></span><span title="Macamana keadaannya bila seseorang itu ada “pagar kawat yang berduri” seperti ini di sekeliling hatinya?">How did the situation when a person is "a barbed wire fence" around her like this?<br /></span><span title="Macamana pula nak buat untuk “turunkan pagar kawat yang berduri” ini sekiranya wujud pada diri, pada hati anda supaya lebih mudah untuk anda mendapatkan sebuah perhubungan yang cemerlang?">How
I was going to do to "drop a barbed wire fence" this if it existed in
yourself, in your heart to make it easier for you to get an excellent
relationship?</span></span></div>
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<b>7 Signs True Love</b><br /><br /> You are tired of ending love that one. Instead of hoping for true love, those were even love day. Before deciding to receive love someone, watch the signs, whether he is your soulmate? This is her mark.<br /><br /> 1. It's Your Best Friend<br /> When are experiencing difficulties, which first comes to your head is himself. It's good to console you. Nevertheless when happy, you know to whom you want to share that happiness. It is always present to you in any situation. There's no better person to fill this role from your partner. Believe couples paired certainly not afraid of experiencing tidal life.</div>
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2. Got a lot of similarity<br /> Results of the research reveals, the most stable marriage is a marriage involves two people with a lot of similarities. Does not really matter what kind of in common, but all of the capital to langgengnya relationship. Secret partner is true, while the two of you can always enjoy with all aspects of life. Do not need other people to make you happy. Do you already feel it? If so, do not miss him.<br /><br /> 3. Your interests are Everything<br /> "Love begins when someone finds that other people's needs as important as their needs are." (Harry Stack Sullivan). From the body language and attitude over the years, the obvious, he treats you as the most important people in his life, but he often emphasizes the need you rather than himself. When he's got potential, maybe you are looking for him. Because eternal love involves commitment of sacrifice for the happiness couples.<br /><br /> 4. Love is not Beryarat<br /> Try to remember, remember, if it ever frown when you're wearing clothes that do not suit her palate? Or you never dicueki, when you cut hair unknowingly? If so, you should think-think again to elect him so beloved. But, true love is unconditional love, is able to accept the couple as is.<br /><br /> 5. How Listening<br /> Whenever you talk to him, not even a moment his attention shifted. It's a good listener, able to listen to you talk for hours without feeling bored, attentive and understand what you want. So you do not need to repeat the same sentence over and over again and say, "How come you get it anyway, what I'm talking about?"<br /><br /> 6. Always On Time<br /> For any business, he always tried to be punctual. Appointment at seven, he had arrived at the place half an hour before. For him, the better he lumutan, than let you wait. Especially if the meeting felt pointnya not familiar with you.<br /><br /> 7. Contact Inward<br /> Without spoken, you can stay in touch to know weather their hearts. Even though it is not paranormal, you can read each other like mind and fathom reactions, and feelings of the couple on a particular situation and conditions. If you already feel the case against him, congratulations! Maybe he slits your soul.</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-53320565362611546582012-12-08T23:43:00.000-08:002012-12-08T23:43:01.842-08:00Proof of Love<div style="text-align: justify;">
Proof of Love<br /><br />What is intended as a proof of true love? Do you know what does this mean? Jom follow us to read the article below as a teaching and guidance for all of us.<br /><br />There is a blind man alone. Everyone bencikan him, except his girlfriend. He was always saying, "I will mengahwini crew when I shall see." Someday, someone dermakan eyes to him. Finally, the man can also see. Immediately, he went to see his girlfriend. However, when she saw her boyfriend, she was really surprised kerana boyfriend also blind.<br /><br />Her boyfriend asked her, "Would berkahwin crew with me now?" Without any reason, the man refused. Her boyfriend smiled and went away and said. "Please keep my good eye ..."<br /><br />Hurm ... what do you think after reading the above article? Are you a lover agree what he did was the best example as a proof of true love?</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-64577296148588143472012-12-05T05:47:00.004-08:002012-12-05T05:47:51.839-08:00Kisah Cinta Erra Fazira - Kasih Terhadap Anak<div style="text-align: justify;">
Sekalipun enggan bercerita kisah peribadi yang sering diprovokasi ramai pihak termasuk media dan blogger, aktres digelar primadona filem Melayu moden, Erra Fazira terus tabah meniti hari.<br /><br />Malah, pada pertemuan bersama HIP, Erra Fazira tampil ceria. Masakan tidak, ditemani jantung hati, Engku Aleesya Engku Emran yang kini berusia empat tahun, Erra bagai lupa segala-galanya. Tumpuannya ketika itu hanyalah kepada puteri kesayangan yang ditatang bagai minyak yang penuh.<br /><br />Mendekati Erra Fazira, HIP berpeluang mendasari hati aktres popular ini. Tak dapat mengelak, soalan akhirnya menjurus kepada mengapa laman sesawangnya yang sejak akhir-akhir ini bagai menggambarkan dirinya dirundung sedih, tertekan dan kecewa.<br /><br />“Sebenarnya, kehidupan kita semua tidak lari daripada permainan emosi. Ada kalanya kita merasakan begitu bahagia sekali dan tidak terlepas juga rasa kecewa dan sedih yang ingin kita luahkan. Saya juga tidak ada menulis status yang boleh mengaitkan diri dengan seseorang... Itu saya jaga. Tiada lain, luahan itu hanya peribadi saya saja.<br /><br />“Namun, saya agak kesal apabila sering diprovokasi dalam laman sesawang. Mereka menulis seolah-olah mahu memanaskan isu dan sengaja melaga-laga kehidupan kami sekeluarga. Perkara ini sentiasa saya tangani dan tidak akan melayan individu sebegini,” katanya.<br /><br />Erra ditemui HIP pada acara Back To School With Staedtler di Damansara Perdana, Petaling Jaya, kelmarin.<br /><br /><b>Terpaksa lupakan konsert JLo</b><br /><br />Masa senggang dimanfaatkan sebaiknya oleh Erra Fazira untuk bersama Aleesya.<br /><br />Kelmarin, Erra Fazira sepatutnya menyaksikan konsert artis pujaannya Jennifer Lopez atau JLo di Stadium Merdeka, Kuala Lumpur, namun hasrat itu terpaksa dibatalkan demi Aleesya.<br /><br />“Walaupun saya teringin menyaksikan konsert JLo yang kali pertama bertandang ke Malaysia, namun ia tidak sebesar nilainya dengan meluangkan masa bersama anak. Aleesya menjadi sumber kebahagiaan yang saya kecapi hingga hari ini dan tidak akan saya sia-siakan masa berharga itu.<br /><br />“Saya sudah membeli lebih awal tiket konsert JLo tetapi disebabkan Aleesya, saya korbankan tiket itu dengan memberikannya kepada teman,” katanya.<br /><br /><b>Bina potensi si kecil dalam kelab kreatif</b><br /><br />Kehadiran Erra Fazira dalam acara Back To School With Staedtler cukup dirasakan peminat ciliknya. Ia menjadi aktiviti tahunan yang diatur kelabnya dengan diberi nama ‘Erra Art Club’.<br /><br />Kelab yang ditubuhkan sejak dua tahun lalu disertai kanak-kanak berusia seawal lima tahun hingga belasan tahun. Aktiviti yang dianjurkan termasuk permainan merangsang minda seperti melukis, mewarna dan lawatan tempat menarik yang dilakukan setiap kali musim cuti sekolah.<br /><br />“Saya tubuhkan kelab ini sejak kehadiran Aleesya dalam hidup saya. Sejak bergelar ibu, saya sering memikirkan bagaimana hendak mendidik anak dengan merangsangkan mindanya agar pemikirannya sentiasa cergas dan sihat.<br /><br />“Selain daripada didikan akademik, aktiviti merangsang minda ini menjadikan kanak-kanak lebih kreatif pada masa akan datang. Saya bertuah kerana inisiatif ini mendapat perhatian Staedtler yang menaja segala aktiviti kelab ini sejak dua tahun lalu,” katanya yang menganggarkan lebih 1,000 kanak-kanak sudah menjadi ahli dengan hanya mendaftar di laman sesawang kelab itu.</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-88176729833237373652012-12-03T09:26:00.001-08:002012-12-03T09:26:13.144-08:00 K53HKX42K6BH <span class="status action"><b> K53HKX42K6BH </b></span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-74550905161115526232012-12-03T07:28:00.000-08:002012-12-03T07:28:27.944-08:00Imagine The One You Love is Here There and Everywhere<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>Imagine</b><br />Everytime I am alone, I imagine that my lover is here. I hope that, what I am imagine for become true. Everytime.<br /><b><br />Here there and everywhere</b><br />When I am alone, I see my lover here there and everywhere. I know that I am lonely so that I always see the one I love. That happen, when I am alone.</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-48592810694117405212012-12-02T23:39:00.001-08:002012-12-02T23:39:05.502-08:00Clench - Faint - Prod<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;">
<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">When I was in clench, I start to faint. My soul fly away and meet my lover. I prod him once, but what I get is only clench feeling. I thinking why we faint, why why we clench but I never get it.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;">I start to clench, with emotion. I start to stay awake during in my dream. I am faint only, not die forever. I am faint only, but never awake. In my faint, my soul travel right away. I found a lover and I prod them, just to remind them that I do so, have someone I love.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>This is what I love. I whisper on my body. My body never clench, my head never faint. My finger never prod.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: medium;"><b>Clench;</b></span>
verb: (With reference to the fingers or hand) close into a tight ball, esp.
when feeling extreme anger; (with reference to the teeth) press or be pressed
tightly together, esp. with anger or determination or so as to suppress a
strong emotion; [with obj.] grasp (something) tightly, esp. with the hands or
between the teeth; [no obj.] (of a muscular part of the body) tighten or
contract sharply, esp. with strong emotion; noun: a contraction or tightening
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adjective: (Of a sight, smell, or sound) barely perceptible, (of a hope,
chance, or possibility) slight; remote; verb: Lose consciousness for a short
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verb: Poke (someone) with a finger, foot, or pointed object; stimulate or persuade
(someone who is reluctant or slow) to do something; noun: A poke with a finger,
foot, or pointed object; a pointed implement, typically one discharging an electric
current and used as a goad.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-80178921419397976382012-12-02T23:28:00.000-08:002012-12-02T23:28:26.146-08:00Between You And Me - Dating And Mate<div style="text-align: justify;">
Between you and me, who will be first to love. I start to love you but you cannot. You start to love me but I cannot. There is wall between you and me. A wall that create space between you and me. A wall that block our sight between you and me. But most of all there is still love inside, between you and me.</div>
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So how could love defeated by the strong emotion between you and me. Yeah, between you and me, just emotion lies around. We settle them down. We cannot run away. We must love each other. We must start new beginning of the day.</div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-20222681110488806632012-11-30T17:49:00.005-08:002012-11-30T17:49:47.120-08:00Date A Mate Date And Mate<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>How to Date A Mate - Date and Mate</b> <b>Tips</b><br /><br />Using these six strategies will enhance your connection and remind you why you choose to be together. "Long term" doesn't have to mean "dull." In fact, as true love matures, it becomes richer and deeper than the fleeting spark of infatuation. So go out, celebrate, and fan a flame of romance for the one you love.<br /><br /><b>Date A Mate Tips</b> - Compliment Your Mate's Appearance<br />Most couples who have been together for awhile forget the fine art of compliments. Women never tire of being told that they're attractive. Men too want to look appealing to their mate. Look at your beloved and find a detail that you can sincerely appreciate. It will start the evening off on the right note.<br /><br /><b>Date A Mate Tips</b> -Don't Discuss Kids, Money Or Work<br />These three topics are absolutely taboo! Observe the 500 yard rule -- once you are 500 yards away from your home, you cannot discuss kids, finances, or work. What is left to talk about, you might ask? Get creative. Talk about current events, about your dreams, about the future, about the restaurant. This is not the time to bring up gripes, complaints, or stressful subjects.<br /><br /><b>Date A Mate Tips - </b>Remember The Early Days Of Your Dating<br />Finish the sentence "I remember when... " and share a pleasant memory of when you were first falling in love. Reminisce in specific detail (what you were wearing, what the weather was like, the environment, the feelings you had, the words she or he used, etc.). Reminiscing will bring smiles to your faces and get the old fires roaring.<br /><br /><b>Date A Mate Tips - </b>Feed The Other A Bite Of Your Meal<br />Many people feed their new spouse a piece of cake at the wedding ceremony. But for most of us, feeding our mate is one of those activities that rarely happens again. However, it can be a sensual, intimate and even playful experience to feed your loved one. Either by hand or with a utensil, take turns feeding each other a bite of something delicious. <br /><br /><b>Date A Mate Tips - </b>Touch Your Mate Throughout The Meal<br />Hold hands, put foot on foot, or place your hand strategically on their arm during your meal. Physical touch is a way to communicate that you're feeling connected... and that you're interested in staying connected.<br /><br /><b>Date A Mate Tips - </b>Share Something You Love About Your Home<br />Sharing appreciation for the home you keep together strengthens your connection with your beloved. You could comment on the couch you bought together, on the deck that he built, on the photograph she hung up in your bedroom. A house becomes a home when you create it together. Notice, be thankful and share your gratitude.<br /><br />Resource: huffingtonpost.com</div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4398548749413945006.post-34039801013541569692012-11-30T17:39:00.004-08:002012-11-30T17:39:44.058-08:00Date For A Mate<div style="text-align: justify;">
<b>Date For A Mate</b> - Does you friend never have a date ? Does your friend never seem to meet the right person ? Does your friend, long to meet the perfect match ? Do you have a party and your <b>mate</b> needs a date ? Lets <b>Date for a Mate</b> and we'll see if cupid strikes.<br /><br />Sixty years ago if you were of marrying age, you'd most likely select someone based on how your parents felt about him or her, how healthy the person appeared to be, how good/moral his or her character appeared to be, and how stable his or her economic resources appeared to be. Today we search for <b>soul mates</b>. Look around you in the classroom. How many <b>potential mates</b> are sitting there? In other words, how many single females or males are there in the same classroom? Now, of those, how many would you be attracted to as a date and how many can you tell just by watching them that you'd probably never date? These are the types of questions and answers we consider when we study <b>dating and mate</b> selection.<br /><br />In the United States there are millions of people between the ages of 18 and 24 (18-24 is considered <b>prime dating and mate-selection</b> ages). The U.S. Statistical Abstracts estimates that 9.5 percent of the U.S. population or about 15,675,000 males and 15,037,000 females are in this age group (retrieved 3 November 2009 from www.census.gov/compendia/statab/tables/09s0010.pdf). Those numbers should have been very similar in the 2010 Census. Does that mean that you could have 15 million potential mates out there somewhere? Yes, potential yet not in realistic terms. You see, it would take more time than any mortal has in their life to ever interact with that many people. Besides, dating and mate-selection is not about volume, it's about quality and intimacy in the relationship. To help you better understand this, let's learn a few key principles that apply to the realistic processes we use to <b>date</b> and select <b>mates</b>.<br /><br />When we see people, we filter them as either being in or out of our pool of eligibles. Filtering is the process of identifying those we interact with as either being in or out of our pool of people we might consider to be a date or mate. There are many filters we use. One is physical appearance. We might include some because of tattoos and piercing or exclude some for the exact same physical traits. We might include some because they know someone we know or exclude the same people because they are total strangers. Figure 1 shows the basic date- and mate-selection principles that play into our filtering processes. (This inverted pyramid metaphorically represents a filter that a liquid might be poured through to refine it; e.g., a coffee filter.)<br /><br />That couple in the photo is my wife and I on a field trip to the Association for Applied and Clinical Sociology in Ypsilanti, Michigan. She and I travel without our children at least twice per year, and we have been attending professional conferences together for more than a decade. We met in college in 1985. I was the maintenance man for all of the women's dorms, and she lived in the dorms (I met many female friends through my work). We dated, became engaged, and were married in the same year. We worked together for seven years to put me through my associate's, bachelor's, master's, and doctorate degree programs and then my post-doctoral fellowship. My wife now has her bachelor's degree and is shopping for her master's. Higher education is a theme that emerged within our life experiences and has spilled over into our children's lives now with three of them in college at this time. All of the principles discussed in this chapter applied to how my wife and I met, became friends, and chose to marry. They will likely apply to you and your experiences.<br /><br />Propenquity is the geographic closeness experienced by potential dates and mates. It's the proximity you might experience by living in the same dorms or apartment buildings, going to the same university or college, working in the same place of employment, or belonging to the same religious group. Proximity means that you both breathe the same air in the same place at about the same time. Proximity is crucial because the more you see one another or interact directly or indirectly with one another, the more likely you see each other as mates. I often ask my students how they met and when they tell their stories I help them identify the geography that was involved in the process.<br /><br />Physical attractiveness is subjective and is defined differently for each individual. Truly, what one person finds as attractive is not what others find to be attractive. There are a few biological, psychological, and social-emotional aspects of appearance that tend to make an individual more attractive to more people. These include slightly above-average desirable traits and symmetry in facial features.<br /><br />According to the Centers for Disease Control (www.CDC.gov), the average man in the United States is 5 feet 10 inches tall and weighs about 177 pounds. The average woman is about 5 feet 4 inches tall and weighs about 144 pounds. Did you just compare yourself? Most of us tend to compare ourselves to averages or to others we know. That's how we come to define our personal level of attractiveness. It is important to understand that we subjectively judge ourselves as being more or less attractive, because we often limit our dating pool of eligibles to those we think are in our same category of beauty.<br /><br />If you are 6 feet tall as a man or 5 feet 8 inches tall as a woman, then you are slightly above average in height. For men, universally desirable traits include manly facial features (strong chin and jaw and somewhat prominent brow), slight upper body musculature, and a slim waist. For women, larger eyes, softer facial features and chin, fuller lips, and an hour-glass figure are more universally desirable traits.<br /><br />So, here is the million-dollar question: “What if I don't have these universally desirable traits? Am I excluded from the date- and mate-selection market?" No. The principle I have found to be the most powerful predictor of how we make our dating and mating selection choices is not universally desirable traits but homogamy. Homogamy is the tendency for dates, mates, and spouses to pair off with someone of similar attraction, background, interests, and needs. This is true for most couples. They find and pair off with persons of similarity more than difference. Have you ever heard the colloquial phrase, “opposites attract?” To some degree they do, but typically opposites don't form committed, long-term relationships together.<br /><br />One of my students challenged this notion in the case of her own relationship. She said, “My husband and I are so different. He like Mexican food, I like Italian. He likes rap and I like classical music. He likes water skiing and I like camping and hiking . . .” I interrupted her and said, “So you both like ethnic food, music, and outdoors. Do you vote on similar issues? Do you have similar family backgrounds? Do you come from similar economic classes?” She answered yes to all three questions.<br /><br />Now, don't misunderstand me. Couples are not identical, just similar. And we tend to find patterns indicating that homogamy in a relationship can be indirectly supportive of a long-term relationship quality because it facilitates less disagreements and disconnections of routines in the daily life of a couple. I believe that we filter homogamously and even to the point that we do tend to marry someone like our parents. Here's why: people from similar economic classes, ethnicities, religions, political persuasions, and lifestyles tend to hang out with others like themselves. Our mates often resemble our parents because we resemble our parents and we tend to look for others like ourselves.<br /><br />Heterogamy is the dating or pairing of individuals with differences in traits. All of us pair off with heterogamous and homogamous individuals, with emphasis more on the latter than the former. Over time, after commitments are made, couples often develop more homogamy. Some develop similar mannerisms, finish each other's sentences, dress alike, develop mutually common hobbies and interests, and parent together.<br /><br />One of the most influential psychologists in the 1950-60s was Abraham Maslow, with his famous Pyramid of the Hierarchy of Needs (Google “A Theory of Human Motivation”). Maslow's pyramid has been taught in high schools and colleges for decades. Most of my students tell me they've seen the pyramid or studied Maslow in more than one previous class. Maslow sheds light on how and why we pick the person we pick when choosing a date or mate by focusing on how they meet our needs as a date, mate, or spouse. Persons from dysfunctional homes where children were not nurtured nor supported through childhood would likely be attracted to someone who provides that unfulfilled nurturing need they still have. Persons from homes where they were nurtured, supported, and sustained in their individual growth and development would likely be attracted to someone who promises growth and support in intellectual, aesthetic, or self-actualization (becoming fully who our individual potential allows us to become) areas of life. It may sound selfish at first glance, but we really do date and mate on the basis of what we get out of it (or how our needs are met).<br /><br />The Social Exchange Theory and its rational choice formula clarify the selection process even further:<br /><br />Maximize Rewards - Minimize Costs = Date or Mate Choice<br /><br />When we interact with potential dates and mates, we run a mental balance sheet in our heads. She might think, “He's tall, confident, funny, and friends with my friends.” As she talks a bit more she might say, “But, he chews smokeless tobacco, only wants to party, and just flirted with another young woman while we were still talking.” The entire time we interact with potential dates and mates we evaluate them on their appearance, disposition, goals and aspirations, and other traits -- this while simultaneously remembering how we rate and evaluate ourselves. Rarely do we seek out the best-looking person at the party unless we define ourselves as an even match for him or her. More often we rank and rate ourselves compared to others and as we size up and evaluate potentials we define the overall exchange rationally or in an economic context in which we try to maximize our rewards while minimizing our losses.<br /><br />The overall evaluation of the deal also depends to a great extent on how well we feel matched on racial and ethnic traits, religious background, social economic class, and age similarities. Truly the complexity of the date- and mate-selection process includes many obvious and some more subtle processes that you can understand for yourself. If you are single, you can apply them to the date- and mate-selection processes you currently pursue.<br /><br />Bernard Murstein wrote articles in the early 1970s where he tested his Stimulus-Value-Role Theory of marital choice (see “Physical Attractiveness and Marital Choice,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol. 22(1): April 1972, p. 8-12, or Who Will Marry Whom? Theories and Research in Marital Choice, New York; Springer, 1976). To Murstein, the exchange is mutual and dependent upon the subjective attractions and the subjective assets and liabilities each individual brings to the relationship. The Stimulus is the trait (usually physical) that draws your attention to the person. After time is spent together dating or hanging out, Values are compared for compatibility and evaluation of maximization of rewards while minimization of costs is calculated. If after time and relational compatibility supports it, the pair may choose to take Roles, which typically include exclusive dating, cohabitation, engagement, or marriage. Figure 2 shows how the Stimulus-Value-Role Theory might overlap with a couple's development of intimacy over increased time and increased interaction.<br /><br />Figure 3. Depiction of Stimulus-Value-Role Theory with Intimacy and Over Time & Interaction<br /><br />How do strangers transition from not even knowing one another to eventually cohabiting or marrying? From the very first encounter, two strangers begin a process that either excludes one another as potential dates or mates or includes them and begins the process of establishing intimacy. Intimacy is the mutual feeling of acceptance, trust, and connection to another person, even with the understanding of the individual's personal faults. In other words, intimacy is the ability to become close to one another, to accept one another as is, and eventually to feel accepted by the other. Intimacy is not sexual intercourse, although sexual intercourse may be one of many expressions of intimacy. When two strangers meet, they have a stimulus that alerts one or both to take notice of the other.<br /><br />I read a book by Judith Wallerstein (see The Good Marriage, 1995) in which a woman was on a date with a guy and overheard another man laughing like Santa Clause might laugh. She asked her date to introduce her and that began the relationship that would become her decades-long marriage to the Santa-Clause-laughing guy. I've had people tell me personally that in their relationship, there was a subtle connection that just felt safe, like a reunion with a long-lost friend, when they first met one another. I've had many indicate that they thought the other was so very hot and good looking, “and I couldn't wait to get burned,” one female student said.<br /><br />In the stimulus stage, some motivation at the physical, social, emotional, intellectual, or spiritual level sparks interests and the interaction begins. Over time and with increased interaction, two people may make that journey of values comparisons and contrasts that inevitably includes or excludes the other. The more time and interaction that is accompanied by increased trust and acceptance of one's self and the other, the more the intimacy and probability of a long-term relationship.<br /><br />Even though Figure 2 shows that a smooth line of increasing intimacy can occur, it does not always occur so smoothly nor so predictably. As the couple reaches a place where a bond has developed, they establish patterns of commitment and loyalty, which initiates the roles listed in Figure 2. The roles are listed in increasing order of level of commitment, yet the list does not indicate any kind of predictable stages the couple would be expected to pursue. In other words, some couples may take the relationship only as far as Exclusive Dating, which is the mutual agreement to exclude others from dating either individual in the relationship. Another couple may eventually cohabit or marry.<br /><br />It should be mentioned that what you'd look for in a date is often different from what you might look for in a spouse. Dates are temporary adventures where good looks, fun personality, entertainment capacity, and even your social status by being seen in public with him or her are considered important. Dates are short-term and can be singular events or a few events. Many college students who have dated more than once develop “A Thing,” or a relationship noticed by the individuals and their friends as either beginning or having at least started, but not quite having a defined destination. These couples eventually hold a DTR. A DTR is a moment in which the two individuals Define The Relationship openly to determine if both want to include each other in a specific goal-directed destination (e.g., exclusive dating) or if it's better for everyone if the relationship ends.<br /><br />Ever had one of these? Many describe them as awkward. I think awkward is an understatement. A DTR is extremely risky in terms of how much of one's self has to be involved and in terms of how vulnerable it makes each person feel. In the TV series "The Office," Jim and Pam experience a number of DTRs that early on in the relationship ended with either or both of them wanting more closeness and commitment but neither of them being capable of making it happen. "The Office" is fiction, but the relationships clearly reflect some of the human experience in an accurate way.<br />Notice that Jim and Pam were from the same part of the country, had very many social and cultural traits in common, and met in a setting where they could see each other on a regular basis and have the opportunity to go through the Stimulus-Value-Role process. Homogamy, propenquity, need matching, compatibility, and eventually commitment all applied in their story together. The cultural similarities of a couple cannot be emphasized enough in this discussion.<br /><br />Many of those living in the United States share common mainstream cultural traits, regardless of ancestral heritage or ethnic background, and date and mate selection occurs for nearly all members of society. Figure 3 shows a list of cultural and ethnic background traits that influence how the inclusion and exclusion decisions are made, depending on how similar or different each individual defines themselves to be in relation to the other. Many who teach relationship skills in cross-cultural or trans-racial relationships focus on the similarity principle.<br /><br />Sumber: freebooks.uvu.edu</div>
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<b>Terkejut isteri seorang lelaki<br />Disediakan oleh Berita Harian</b><br /><br />Rahsia terbongkar selepas 19 tahun berkahwin<br /><br />ANTWERP: Seorang lelaki Belgium kecewa selepas menyedari bahawa isteri yang dikahwininya selama 19 tahun pada asalnya dilahirkan sebagai seorang lelaki.<br /><br />Lelaki dari Antwerp yang dikenali sebagai Jan itu berkata beliau berasakan seluruh dunianya hancur selepas mendapat tahu perkara sebenar mengenai ‘isterinya’ yang dikenali sebagai Monica.<br /><br />Jan, 43 berkata beliau bertemu Monica apabila beliau yang berasal dari Indonesia tiba di Belgium untuk menjadi pengasuh kepada anak adik suaminya dan Jan menyifatkan bahawa ‘isterinya’ itu sebagai amat cantik dan bersifat kewanitaan, lapor Daily Mail.<br /><br />Beliau kini mula memahami mengapa isterinya itu tidak bagus apabila melakukan kerja rumah termasuk menggosok pakaian.<br /><br />“Saya menyangkakan dia seorang wanita yang menarik dan saya adalah wanita sejati kerana dia langsung memperlihatkan ciri lelaki seorang lelaki,” katanya kepada akhbar Belgium, Nieuwsblad.<br /><br />“Saya tidak mengesyaki apa-apa sehingga seorang sepupunya datang melawat dan semuanya terbongkar.<br /><br />“Saya katakan ini kepada anak lelaki saya dan beliau berkata pernah mendengar khabar angin bahawa Monica dulunya adalah seorang lelaki.”<br /><br />“Satu petang saya bersemuka dengannya dan beliau akhirnya mengaku bahawa dia dilahirkan sebagai seorang lelaki dan melakukan pembedahan menukar jantina.”<br /><br />“Dunia saya gelap beberapa saat. Saya rasa tertipu selama hampir 20 tahun,” katanya yang ternyata begitu kecewa. – Agensi </div>
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<b>Facebook Punca Doktor Jadi Sasaran Cinta Pesakit<br />Disediakan oleh Berita Harian</b><br /><br />London: Kemunculan laman web sosial seperti Facebook selain emel dan mesej teks menjadikan doktor sebagai sasaran gangguan pesakit yang jatuh cinta dengan mereka.<br /><br />Kesatuan Pertahanan Perubatan (MDU) berkata, bilangan pesakit yang memujuk rayu doktor meningkat satu pertiga kerana teknologi komunikasi memudahkan perhubungan.<br /><br />Walaupun banyak godaan berjaya ditepis, kes paling buruk menyaksikan polis terpaksa dipanggil dan injuksi dikeluarkan untuk mengelak doktor diganggu atau diintip.<br /><br />Malah, sebahagian doktor dituduh secara salah oleh pesakit yang mahu mengadakan hubungan dengan mereka, menjadikan mereka berisiko diserang.<br /><br />Jurucakap MDU, Dr Claire Macaulay, yang menyediakan nasihat undang-undang dan insurans kepada doktor, memberitahu akhbar Daily Mail: Aliran pesakit cuba menggoda doktor bukan perkara baru. Namun dulu pesakit cenderung menulis untuk tujuan itu tetapi kini mereka menggunakan cara digital.<br /><br />Anggota kami melaporkan mereka menerima banyak mesej menerusi telefon bimbit atau emel, Twitter atau Facebook, dan dalam sesetengah cara, lebih mengganggu daripada menerima lambakan surat.<br /><br />Seorang pesakit wanita menghantar surat, hadiah dan permohonan rakan Facebook kepada doktornya. Beliau diberitahu caranya itu tidak sesuai dan dirujuk kepada doktor lain.<br /><br />Bagaimanapun, beliau memberitahu Amalan Perubatan Umum beliau melakukan hubungan seks dengan doktor berkenaan. Doktor terbabit dibebaskan daripada sebarang salah laku selepas enam bulan disiasat.<br /><br />Antara tahun 2002 dan 2006, MDU menerima 73 permintaan untuk membantu doktor menangani godaan, perangkaan yang meningkat kepada 100 untuk tempoh 2007 hingga 2011.<br /><br />Daripada 100 kes, 72 membabitkan doktor biasa, manakala yang lain membabitkan pakar psikiatri dan pakar sakit puan. Hampir tiga perempat doktor yang digoda adalah lelaki.<br /><br />Agensi </div>
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<b>Profesor Hindi lancar sekolah cinta<br />Disediakan oleh Berita Harian</b><br /><br />Patna: Seorang profesor universiti dilaporkan mahu menubuh sebuah sekolah di negeri Bihar bagi mengajar soal cinta.<br /><br />Profesor Hindi di Universiti Patna, Matuknath Chaudhary terkenal dengan panggilan Guru Cinta menyatakan rancangannya selepas dipecat kerana menyuarakan perasaan cinta kepada seorang pelajarnya. Profesor Chaudhary akan membuka sekolah pertama seumpama mengajar mata pelajaran cinta di kampungnya, Jayrampur, terletak di daerah Bhagalpur, Bihar.<br /><br />Cinta abadi menyebabkan kita cuba menunjukkan rasa kasih sayang. Cinta juga bermakna pengorbanan, tiada tempat untuk mementingkan diri sendiri jika bercinta, kata Chaudhary, 58, kepada media.<br /><br />Beliau menyifatkan bahawa cinta mempunyai dua unsur iaitu yang membawa kehancuran dan kreativiti. Beliau dipecat daripada jawatannya pada 2009 selepas hubungan sulit dengan seorang pelajar, Julie yang berusia separuh dari umurnya terbongkar<br /><br />Chaudhary berkata, beliau lebih bimbangkan pendidikan yang tidak lengkap diterima pelajar di sekolah. Beliau diberikan semula jawatan di pusat pengajian itu selepas pemecatannya ditarik balik.<br /><br />Pendidikan sekolah hanya mengajar pelajar mengenai dunia luar, ia tidak mengajar mereka mengenai pengetahuan dalaman. Perlu ada keseimbangan antara keduanya, katanya.<br /><br />Profesor terbabit pernah mendapat perhatian pada 2010 pada pilihan raya Bihar apabila beliau bertanding sebagai calon bebas dengan janji untuk mewujudkan taman cinta di Patna di mana pasangan bercinta boleh bertemu.<br /><br />Agensi </div>
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